The email links on each ad are encoded so that they cannot be harvested by spammers.

To respond to an ad using an email client (outlook, outlook express, thunderbird, etc.) on your PC or Mac just click on the link.

To respond to an ad using a web based email client (Yahoo!, Gmail, Hotmail, etc.) copy the link and ad the site name at the end of the email. For instance if the Reply To link says pers-#### for an ad on TheDateList you would add @thedatelist.com to the end making pers-####@thedatelist.com. The #s being the ads post number. For the CollegeDateList you would add @collegedatelist.com and for the GayDateList you add @gaydatelist.com.

If you need further assistance feel free to contact us.

For the simplicity of it in the coming weeks I will be making some video tutorials to show you how to navigate and best make use of the site. For starters there will be 3 videos: Basic site navigation, how to post an ad and password recovery.

If you have any other suggestions for video tutorials please submit them by clicking on this link - contact us

I sometimes get an email asking how our sites work. To help you out a “how to” page has been added. Click here to view it or click the tab in the header of the page.

A couple of people have emailed and asked how do i get back to the home page from “such and such” page. If you look in the top right hand corner of every page you will see three icons. The 1st looks like a house - click it and it takes you home to the main page. The second is a question mark and brings you here to the help section. The third is an envelope and take you to the contact us form. Hope that helps.

A picture is worth a 1000 words and will also get you at least ten times the responses. With that being said, there are some pics that do NOT work to your benefit.

- men, a pic of your genitals are really a turn off to a lady looking to hook-up.
- old pics that do not look like you are good for memories sake but not good to represent how you look.
- fake pics. Hopefully, an explanation is not needed.

What pics work the best?

- A recent face pic (please smile).
- A full body shot (clothed).

What pics are prohibited?

- any pic with graphic sex or object penetration.
- a pic of you with your friends in it. They did not approve their photo to be posted by you.
- copyrighted images you do not own the copyright for.

Happy Posting!